Is it love or sort of old age phantasm(caducity adolescent)?

When I was 22 I was in a relationship with a 53 year old man. We had a wonderful relationship but it couldn't progress because he had initially lied about his age and that broke my trust. I figure if you could lie about your age you could lie about anything. Anyway, we broke up after two years because my lack of trust made me fall out of love with him. I started to see him as some sort of sicko and felt uncomfortable with him around my then 3yr old daughter. When we broke up he cried really badly. I believed it was genuine love on his part but I also believe he had some sick pedophilia-related fantasy in his head. I think he started out the relationship with sick thoughts but eventually his heart became involved. With your ociate I think he is trying to have his cake and eat it too. He is married so he needs to cut the crap and respect his wife.