Quarter of a Century.. Or Start of a life time?

You should just be yourself. How can you suddenly turn mean? That surely would not make you happy as you are a naturally nice person. My boyfriend is sweet, lovely and gentle and I love him so much for that. If you feel women are not coming to you then that is because you are going for the wrong women. I cannot imagine why a woman would not want someone nice. You say you have not had any fun in your social life. Do you mean you have no friends? Being nice should not mean you have friends. Friends should value you for who you are. The only thing I would say is you should try not to be too giving as you can get used that way. be yourself but hold back a little and save all your lovely qualities for people who deserve them.