Dieing from SIDS?

I know. It is every parent's worst fear. I can't tell you anything to make you stop worrying. As a first time mom, I can tell you, I have never worried so much in my life until I had a baby! Just be safe and follow the guidelines. Actually, sleeping in a crib is safer than in your bed. (my son slept with me until about 2 months too!) Remove all blankets, toys, bumpers. Just a nice flat mattress with no bedding. Swaddle your baby or get a sleep sack. It looks like a sleeper with arm holes and a blanket bottom. Always put your baby on her back to sleep. Most important, do not allow any smoking in your home or around your baby.